proverb · Words worth keeping
Much kindred, much trouble.
Much kindred, much trouble.
Understand the thought
Meaning in plain English
Many relatives may bring many demands or disagreements. The saying points to the work of relationships without proving that a large family is a burden.
Example
Relatives arranging a gathering agree who handles travel details so that several conflicting plans do not fall to one person.
Deeper explanation and when to use it
Much kindred is set beside much trouble, compressing the possible obligations of a wider family network. Arrangements can become complicated when several people have different expectations or need support at once. A useful application clarifies roles and boundaries instead of treating relatives as inherently troublesome. The same network may also provide companionship and help. The number of relationships alone does not determine their quality.
When to use it
Use it when a family arrangement needs clearer expectations and shared responsibilities.
Keep in mind
Family size does not predict conflict or excuse dismissing someone’s relationships.
An interpretation of the words, not a claim about their earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional (French-language collection)
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Date unknown