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proverb · Traditional
The saying recommends relinquishing resentment, forgetting a wrong and forgiving as a path towards a happier life. That is an aspiration, not a guarantee or a duty to excuse ongoing harm.
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The phrase urges leaving a wrong behind rather than repeatedly returning to it. Forgiving and forgetting are separate possibilities, and neither should be demanded as proof that someone has dealt with harm correctly.
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The saying values forgiveness above revenge as a source of satisfaction. It contrasts two possible responses to a grievance.
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The saying sets a strict limit after a first pardon. It warns against repeatedly overlooking the same conduct, while leaving room to question the blanket rule and distinguish forgiveness from restored trust.
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Stopping the action that caused harm does not repair its consequences. After ending harmful behaviour, consider what recovery, acknowledgement or restitution is still needed.
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