proverb · Words worth keeping
A busy mother makes a lazy daughter.
A busy mother makes a lazy daughter.
Historical period not yet established
Understand the thought
Meaning in plain English
A busy mother causing a lazy daughter assigns a child’s conduct to a parent’s workload. The saying presents a gendered family explanation.
What the words are saying
A critical interpretation rejects a universal causal claim or blame attached to either role. A useful discussion can ask how responsibilities, learning opportunities and resources are shared without assuming gender determines them. Unpaid care is work, and limited participation may have reasons beyond unwillingness.
Everyday example
A household discusses fair shared responsibilities without blaming a mother’s workload or labelling a daughter lazy.
When to use it
Use it critically to examine family workload and learning opportunities.
What it does not mean
No universal cause, gendered duty or character judgment from workload is established.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
Ireland
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin.- Historical period
- Historical period not yet established
No sufficiently supported historical placement has been established. Import and download dates are not treated as composition dates. - Recorded source
- Contributor-provided wisdom reference (2014 AD)
Supplied reference B; unit 851; PDF page 75; collection label: Ireland
A collection's publication date can be later than the words it records.
- Culture
- Ireland
