proverb · Source-linked selection
A man in a passion rides a horse that runs away with him.
A man in a passion rides a horse that runs away with him.
Historical period not yet established
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Meaning in plain English
Strong anger or agitation can carry a person into actions they would not choose calmly. The runaway horse suggests losing direction under an emotion, while allowing that feelings may reveal a concern worth addressing.
What the words are saying
The rider is pictured being carried along by a horse they are no longer directing. Applied to a person in a passion, the image can describe a rapid chain of words or decisions driven by anger rather than a considered purpose. It invites a pause to regain direction, not a requirement to suppress every strong feeling or pretend that a grievance is unimportant. The emotion may identify something that needs attention, while the immediate action still needs judgment. A useful response creates enough distance to choose what to say or do and then returns to the underlying matter more clearly.
Everyday example
After receiving a dismissive message, an organiser saves a furious draft, takes a break and sends a specific request for clarification instead of the insults.
When to use it
Use it when an emotional reaction is beginning to steer words or decisions away from the intended purpose.
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What it does not mean
A pause does not invalidate a grievance or require tolerating harm; address the concern in a considered way.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
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- Historical period not yet established
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- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 1212 · Passion
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