proverb · Legacy record
An untried friend is like an un-cracked nut.
An untried friend is like an un-cracked nut.
Historical period not yet established
Understand the thought
Meaning in plain English
An untested friend compared with an unopened nut gives uncertainty a tangible form. The saying distinguishes a friendship’s appearance from what experience has revealed.
What the words are saying
A useful reading allows trust to develop through ordinary conduct rather than staged loyalty tests. Friends do not owe dangerous proof or unlimited support, and one difficult response is not a complete verdict. Mutual boundaries and circumstances matter.
Everyday example
Someone notices consistent kindness over time without setting a trap to test a friend.
When to use it
Use it to discuss gradually learned trust without manufactured tests.
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What it does not mean
No duty to prove friendship through risk or unlimited assistance is established.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
Japan
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin.- Historical period
- Historical period not yet established
No sufficiently supported historical placement has been established. Import and download dates are not treated as composition dates. - Recorded source
- Contributor-provided wisdom reference (2014 AD)
Supplied reference B; unit 384; PDF page 38; collection label: Japan
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- Culture
- Japan