proverb · Words worth keeping
Claw me, and I will claw you.
Claw me, and I will claw you.
Historical period not yet established
Understand the thought
Meaning in plain English
The mutual scratching image presents an exchange of favours: help me and I will help you. It may describe ordinary cooperation or self-serving reciprocity, depending on the situation, so the fairness of the exchange must be examined rather than assumed.
What the words are saying
Clawing is read figuratively as doing someone a useful turn, with a matching turn promised in return. The symmetrical sentence makes the arrangement sound simple and dependable. Such reciprocity can sustain cooperation when both people understand it and nobody else is disadvantaged. It can also become a way to trade special treatment or avoid impartial judgment. The saying itself does not distinguish those cases. A useful reading asks what each person is exchanging, whether either can decline and whether the arrangement affects someone outside it. Mutual benefit alone does not settle those questions.
Everyday example
Two neighbours exchange help setting up a community event, while a judging panel declines an offer to trade favourable scores.
When to use it
Use it to identify reciprocal assistance and examine the terms of the exchange.
What it does not mean
A reciprocal favour can still be coercive or unfair to others.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Historical period not yet established
No sufficiently supported historical placement has been established. Import and download dates are not treated as composition dates. - Recorded source
- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 260 · Claw
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