proverb · Words worth keeping
Desires are nourished by delays.
Desires are nourished by delays.
Historical period not yet established
Understand the thought
Meaning in plain English
Waiting for something can make the desire for it more intense. Notice how anticipation affects your judgement rather than assuming that a growing wish proves the thing is becoming more worthwhile.
What the words are saying
Nourished gives desire the image of something fed while fulfilment is postponed. The person may imagine the hoped-for result repeatedly, making it occupy more attention than it did at first. The proverb describes one possible effect of waiting, not a law about every wish. A delay may also weaken interest or reveal that a plan is unsuitable. The useful distinction is between wanting something more strongly and learning that it has greater value. If anticipation is driving the decision, returning to the actual purpose and available information can provide a steadier basis for choosing.
Everyday example
A collector waiting for an advertised item pauses to check whether it still fits the collection instead of treating weeks of anticipation as a reason to buy at any cost.
When to use it
Use it when anticipation is making a wish stronger without adding evidence of its value.
What it does not mean
Waiting affects people differently; stronger desire is neither proof of value nor proof that the wish is unreasonable.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Historical period not yet established
No sufficiently supported historical placement has been established. Import and download dates are not treated as composition dates. - Recorded source
- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 409 · Desires
A collection's publication date can be later than the words it records.
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