proverb · Words worth keeping
Forbearance is no acquittance.
Forbearance is no acquittance.
Historical period not yet established
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Meaning in plain English
Holding back from demanding something is not necessarily giving up the claim. Patience or temporary restraint should not automatically be read as forgiveness or final agreement.
What the words are saying
The saying separates forbearance from acquittance: refraining from pressing a matter is distinguished from treating it as settled or released. Figuratively, a person may allow time for a reply or correction while still expecting the responsibility to be addressed. Their quietness alone does not establish that they have accepted what happened. The proverb offers a distinction in ordinary relationships, not advice about whether a legal claim has been waived. Clear communication matters because silence can be interpreted differently. State what remains expected and what the temporary restraint means instead of relying on an assumption that either side must understand it identically.
Everyday example
A volunteer gives a coordinator another week to correct an omitted credit, explaining that the extra time does not mean the acknowledgement is no longer needed.
When to use it
Use it when temporary patience is being interpreted as final acceptance or release of an expectation.
What it does not mean
This is not a rule about legal waiver; clarify the actual expectations rather than assuming silence settles them.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Historical period not yet established
No sufficiently supported historical placement has been established. Import and download dates are not treated as composition dates. - Recorded source
- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 614 · Forbearance
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