proverb · Words worth keeping
"He that wolde not when he might, He shall not when he wold-a."
"He that wolde not when he might, He shall not when he wold-a."
Historical period not yet established
Understand the thought
Meaning in plain English
An opportunity refused while available may be absent when later wanted. The reversal of might and would makes changed timing central to the warning.
What the words are saying
The person would not act when able, then wishes to act when the option has gone. It can encourage a considered decision before an opening closes. It should not assume that the earlier refusal was foolish: consent, uncertainty and other responsibilities may have justified it. A useful reading examines what changed and what can still be done, rather than treating regret as proof that one should always say yes.
Everyday example
A group considers an available meeting carefully because the participants may not be able to gather again soon.
When to use it
Use it to examine a decision whose conditions may not remain available.
What it does not mean
Refusal can be reasonable, and a missed opportunity does not justify overriding consent.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Historical period not yet established
No sufficiently supported historical placement has been established. Import and download dates are not treated as composition dates. - Recorded source
- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 1858 · Would
A collection's publication date can be later than the words it records.
- Culture
- English
