proverb · Words worth keeping
Marry above your match and you get a master.
Marry above your match and you get a master.
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Meaning in plain English
A partnership shaped by unequal social power may become a relationship of command. The saying warns that a supposed advantage can carry a loss of equality.
What the words are saying
Marrying above one’s match is pictured as acquiring a master rather than an equal companion. It can invite attention to how money, status or dependence affects decisions within a relationship. The source’s language of rank should not become a rule that people must marry within a social class. Differences do not inevitably produce domination. A useful reading asks whether both people can speak, choose and set boundaries freely.
Everyday example
A person considering a partnership asks whether differences in resources will be used to control shared decisions.
When to use it
Use it to question a power imbalance that could undermine mutual respect.
What it does not mean
Social or financial differences do not inevitably make a relationship unequal.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
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- Historical period not yet established
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- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 1044 · Master
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