proverb · Words worth keeping
Pardon all men, but never thyself.
Pardon all men, but never thyself.
Historical period not yet established
Understand the thought
Meaning in plain English
Be generous toward others while taking your own conduct seriously. The absolute refusal of self-pardon needs to be tempered with responsibility and self-compassion.
What the words are saying
The saying sets outward forgiveness against an inwardly severe standard. It can challenge the habit of excusing oneself while judging everyone else. Yet never forgiving oneself can prevent learning and repair. A careful reading asks for honest acknowledgment, proportionate correction and a fairer view of others, rather than endless guilt. Forgiveness also does not require someone to ignore harm or restore unsafe contact.
Everyday example
Someone apologises for a missed commitment and changes their practice, while responding reasonably when another person makes a similar mistake.
When to use it
Use it to challenge a double standard in how mistakes are judged.
What it does not mean
Accountability allows self-compassion; forgiving others need not remove boundaries or consequences.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Historical period not yet established
No sufficiently supported historical placement has been established. Import and download dates are not treated as composition dates. - Recorded source
- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 1209 · Pardon
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- Culture
- English
