proverb · Words worth keeping
Speak well of the dead.
Speak well of the dead.
Historical period not yet established
Understand the thought
Meaning in plain English
Speak about someone who has died with care and respect. The saying encourages restraint but should not require concealing harm or rewriting their conduct.
What the words are saying
Death removes a person’s opportunity to answer what is said, so the saying can discourage casual cruelty and unsupported allegations. Respectful remembrance may include honest complexity rather than unqualified praise. A careful use considers evidence, purpose and the needs of people affected by the person’s actions. Those harmed should not be silenced merely because the person responsible has died.
Everyday example
A remembrance acknowledges valued contributions honestly without erasing a substantiated harm that still affects others.
When to use it
Use it to encourage fair, careful speech about a deceased person.
What it does not mean
Respect does not require false praise or silence about substantiated harm.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Historical period not yet established
No sufficiently supported historical placement has been established. Import and download dates are not treated as composition dates. - Recorded source
- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 1488 · Speak
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