proverb · Words worth keeping
To forget wrong is the greatest revenge.
To forget wrong is the greatest revenge.
Historical period not yet established
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Meaning in plain English
The saying favours freeing your attention from a past wrong over answering it with further harm. Moving on can be valuable while remembering what happened and keeping appropriate boundaries.
What the words are saying
This wording shares the forget-wrong idea with the related entry that calls it the best revenge. Greatest strengthens the praise but does not supply a separate historical principle. The apparent revenge is the refusal to keep the grievance at the centre of one’s choices. Forgetting should not be read as an obligation to destroy evidence or pretend the wrong did not occur. A response seeking repair can still be reasonable. The useful question is whether the next action addresses a continuing need or mainly repeats a contest with the person involved, and whether another course would better serve the affected person.
Everyday example
A contributor whose complaint has been resolved turns to a new project rather than continuing a public quarrel, while keeping the correspondence needed to explain the earlier resolution.
When to use it
Use it cautiously when continued retaliation is keeping a resolved grievance central.
What it does not mean
No one must erase a wrong or abandon a continuing need for protection, repair or acknowledgement.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Historical period not yet established
No sufficiently supported historical placement has been established. Import and download dates are not treated as composition dates. - Recorded source
- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 1356 · Revenge
A collection's publication date can be later than the words it records.
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