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Kindness.

Helping with consideration for another person’s dignity and your own responsibilities. These editorial selections explore giving, reciprocity and how help is offered. Connections follow agent-reviewed meanings, rather than source word matching. Reviewed editorial meanings may also connect entries to this topic; those assignments are labelled separately from word matching.

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Charity begins at home.

Meaning: Care and generosity should include the people closest to you. Helping elsewhere does not excuse neglecting responsibilities to those who depend on you in everyday life.

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A gift with a kind countenance is a double gift.

Meaning: A gift offered with warmth can provide both practical help and a sense of being cared for. The manner of giving matters alongside the thing that is given.

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To give and keep there is need of wit.

Meaning: Giving generously while retaining what is needed calls for judgement. Consider both the recipient’s need and your own commitments rather than treating generosity as either giving everything or refusing everything.

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One good turn deserves another.

Meaning: A helpful act is a reason to respond with kindness or assistance when you can. Mutual generosity can strengthen a relationship without requiring an exact repayment for every favour.

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Kindnesses, like grain, increase by sowing.

Meaning: Acts of kindness can encourage further kindness, like planted grain producing more grain. A considerate action may spread through example or reciprocity beyond its immediate benefit.

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Handsomely asked, handsomely refused.

Meaning: Courtesy in making a request does not oblige someone to accept it. A refusal can be equally courteous, preserving respect without pretending that every reasonable-sounding request can be granted.

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Every one feels his own burden heavy.

Meaning: A person experiences the weight of their own difficulties directly. Recognising that perspective can help people take another’s burden seriously without ranking whose life must be hardest.

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By telling our woes we often assuage them.

Meaning: Putting a difficulty into words can sometimes make it feel less isolating or easier to examine. The saying values telling someone who can listen without promising that disclosure resolves the problem.

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Where misfortune befals injuries follow.

Meaning: Injury following misfortune pictures a person facing further difficulties when already vulnerable. The saying invites attention to additional burdens rather than predicting them.

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The worst jests are those that are true.

Meaning: A joke can hurt especially when it exposes a real vulnerability. Accuracy does not make ridicule kind, useful or appropriate to the setting.

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It is the tone that makes the music.

Meaning: How you say something can change how it is received. Tone contributes to the message alongside the literal words, especially in sensitive conversations.

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’Tis a long day a day without bread.

Meaning: An ordinary day can feel much harder when a basic need is unmet. Consider material conditions before judging another person’s mood, attention or performance.

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Not every one that dances is glad.

Meaning: Visible participation does not always reveal private feeling. Someone may join a celebration while feeling unhappy, uncomfortable or simply less enthusiastic than others assume.

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A galled horse does not care to be curried.

Meaning: A sore place can make ordinary handling unwelcome. Consider previous difficulty or present discomfort before assuming that another person’s resistance is unreasonable.

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Soft words don’t scotch the tongue.

Meaning: Speaking gently need not cost the speaker anything essential. A considerate choice of words can make a difficult exchange more bearable without surrendering a necessary point.

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He knocks boldly at the door who brings good news.

Meaning: Delivering welcome news can make a person feel confident about approaching others. The expected response affects how readily someone speaks or asks for attention.

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To get the chicks one must coax the hen.

Meaning: A desired result may depend on another person’s willing participation. Approach that person considerately rather than demanding only the benefit you want from them.

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Scratch people where they itch.

Meaning: Useful help responds to the need a person actually has. The itching place represents a specific concern that a general offer may fail to address.

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Manual jokes are clown’s jokes.

Meaning: Physical horseplay can impose discomfort or injury on another person. Humour should leave people free to participate rather than making their body the object of a joke.

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The hen’s eyes are with her chickens.

Meaning: Care often directs attention toward those who depend on us. Notice their needs without assuming that concern requires constant supervision or leaves no room for independence.

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The little alms are the good alms.

Meaning: A modest gift can still provide useful help. Its value depends on the recipient’s need and the way it is given, not only on its size.

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The worst clothed go to windward.

Meaning: People with the least protection may be placed where conditions are harshest. The clothing-and-wind image questions whether burdens are being assigned to those least equipped to bear them.

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