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proverb · Traditional
Both speaking and remaining silent can be appropriate, depending on the situation. Judge what the moment requires instead of treating either constant speech or constant restraint as wise in itself.
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Pause to consider what your words will do before saying them. A little thought can prevent a careless remark that is difficult to take back.
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The hearer can exercise judgement even when the speaker does not. The saying places responsibility for a response with the listener rather than making another person’s manner dictate it.
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Weariness can be part of the setting of a quarrel. Consider whether a pause would help people respond more patiently, while keeping fatigue separate from permission to mistreat others.
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A hurried demand need not dictate a hurried answer. The contrast gives the responder room to consider what is being asked, without praising delay when a prompt response is necessary.
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A desired result may depend on another person’s willing participation. Approach that person considerately rather than demanding only the benefit you want from them.
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An offer is unlikely to impress people who already know its subject and have ready access to what is being offered. Consider the audience’s knowledge before presenting something as rare or valuable.
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Truth is pictured as a heavy blow because unwelcome facts can unsettle people. The violent exaggeration invites care in speaking honestly, rather than treating honesty as permission to hurt.
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Pause before speaking so that the words fit the facts and the situation. The seven turns emphasise deliberate care rather than a literal counting rule.
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Listen more and speak with greater restraint. Giving other people room to explain can improve your understanding before you decide what contribution is useful.
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